Cats have a reputation for being independent and sometimes aloof, but if you know what to look for, you’ll realise how much they love and appreciate you. Unlike dogs, who openly express affection, cats have unique ways of showing that you’re their favourite person. If you’ve ever wondered whether your cat truly adores you, here are nine signs that confirm you’re their number one human.
1. They Bring You “Gifts”
If your cat brings you toys, random objects, or even less pleasant surprises like insects or small prey, it’s a sign they trust and care for you. In the wild, cats share food with their family or those they respect. So, when your cat drops a toy mouse at your feet, they might be trying to provide for you like they would for their young or fellow cats. While you might not appreciate a half-chewed bug on your doorstep, it’s your cat’s way of saying, “I love you.” Accepting these gifts with gratitude (even if you discreetly dispose of them) reinforces your bond with your cat.
2. Slow Blinking at You
The slow blink is one of the most heartwarming signs of a cat’s affection. If your cat locks eyes with you and gives you a slow, deliberate blink, they show trust and love. In cat language, a slow blink is like a warm hug or a kiss. If you return the blink, you tell your cat, “I love you too.” This simple exchange helps strengthen the bond between you and your pet. Some cats even initiate slow blinking to get your attention or encourage a peaceful and calming moment with you.
3. They Follow You Around
Does your cat seem to appear wherever you go? Whether working at your desk, cooking in the kitchen, or even heading to the bathroom, a cat following you demonstrates attachment. They enjoy your company and want to be close to you, even if they’re sitting nearby or watching from a distance. This behaviour is a clear indication that your cat values your presence. Some cats will even weave between your legs as you walk, which is their way of being playful and staying close.
4. Head Butting and Rubbing Against You
When your cat bumps their head against you or rubs their face on you, they mark you with their scent. Cats have scent glands on their cheeks, forehead, and chin; when they rub against you, they claim you as their own. This is a strong display of affection and trust, as cats only mark those they feel safe and comfortable with. If your cat frequently headbutts you, consider yourself chosen! This act is a profound sign of bonding, and it’s their way of reinforcing your connection.
5. They Knead You With Their Paws
Kneading—when a cat pushes their paws into you rhythmically—is a behaviour they carry from kittenhood. Kittens knead their mother’s belly to stimulate milk flow, and when adult cats knead you, they associate you with comfort and security. If your cat kneads your lap or a soft blanket while sitting with you, it’s a sign they feel safe, happy, and deeply bonded to you. Some cats also purr while kneading, which is another strong indicator of their contentment. While kneading can sometimes be a bit painful due to sharp claws, it’s ultimately a sweet gesture of love and trust.
6. They Sleep Near You (or on You)
Cats are at their most vulnerable when they sleep, so if your cat chooses to nap near you or, better yet, directly on you, it’s a massive sign of trust. Cats sleep in the wild in secure locations to protect themselves from threats. If your cat chooses to rest beside you, they see you as a source of safety and warmth. Many cats also enjoy sleeping on their guardian’s lap or chest, enjoying the rhythm of their breathing and heartbeat. This habit shows they feel comfortable and view you as part of their inner circle.
7. Purring When They’re Around You
Purring is one of the most recognisable signs of a happy cat. While cats can purr for different reasons, such as self-soothing when in pain, they most commonly purr when they feel content and safe. If your cat purrs when they are curled up beside you or when you’re petting them, it’s a strong indication that they trust and love you. Some cats will even purr when they see you, showing how joyful your presence brings them. Pay attention to the pitch and frequency of the purr—long, steady purring usually indicates deep relaxation and happiness.
8. They Expose Their Belly to You
A cat’s belly is one of their most sensitive areas, and they typically don’t expose it unless they feel entirely secure. If your cat rolls onto their back and shows you their belly, they are displaying ultimate trust. While not all cats enjoy belly rubs, showing you their tummy is their way of saying, “I feel safe with you.” Just read their body language before attempting a belly rub—some cats welcome it, while others might react with a playful swat. Regardless of whether they enjoy belly rubs, simply exposing their belly is a strong sign of trust.
9. They Give You Gentle Love Bites
If your cat ever gives you a soft nibble or gentle “love bite,” they are showing affection. This behaviour is often a sign of playful bonding and mimics how cats groom each other. However, a fine line exists between a loving nibble and an overstimulated bite, so be mindful of their mood. Love bites are generally soft and not meant to hurt, showing that your cat sees you as part of their family. If your cat frequently gives love bites, try responding with slow petting or engaging in a playful session to keep the interaction positive.
Your Cat Thinks You’re Pretty Special
Cats may not always be as openly affectionate as dogs, but they have unique ways of showing love. If your cat exhibits any (or all) of these signs, you can be sure they see you as their trusted human. Understanding their behaviours and reciprocating their affection will only strengthen your bond. So, the next time your cat brings you a “gift” or gives you a slow blink, know that in their unique way, they’re telling you that you’re the best human ever.
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