How To Socialise Your Puppy Like A Pro

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The optimal socialisation development learning stage is the first 4 months of your puppy’s life. If done right, your puppy will learn to accept new people, locations, activities, and smells positively and grow into a well-rounded, confident adult dog. This article will give tips on how to socialise your puppy like a pro.

Socialisation is safe after your puppy’s vaccination course.

Socialising Your Puppy

The term socialising your puppy is more than letting them meet new people and dogs. Socialising your puppy means teaching them the life skills they need to function daily in our human-focused world with little or no stress. Learning about things they will encounter daily and how to react calmly to them and unexpected occurrences.

This involves teaching them how to meet new people, other dogs and animals, new environments, smells and objects. Done positively, your puppy will learn not to become anxious when new or unexpected things happen. Your puppy will grow into a calm and confident adult dog.

Socialising with people and other pets helps a cat's memory. How good is a cat's memory. Pickles the black cat lying on a brown blanket on the back of the sofa, beside a girl on the left wearing a black tshirt, and Luna the grey and white siberian husky lying on the sofa facing the girl.

Start Slow

Each new experience for your puppy should be done in a controlled manner. You want each new encounter to be as positive for your puppy as possible. The less anxious your puppy is, the easier the next encounter will be. Gradual and positive should be the socialisation mantra.

Don’t rush your puppy. Allow it to investigate at its own pace; ensure it always has the opportunity to move away from the new encounter. Start in low-distraction environments to allow your puppy to adjust to the new stimulus at its own pace. Gradually increase distractions as your puppy becomes more confident.

Allow Your Puppy To Go At It's Own Pace During Socialisation. Image on the left is Luna the grey and white siberian husky puppy wearing a pink harness, body turned away but head looking at the seaweed stick being carried by Storm the older black and white Border Collie walking on sand. Image on the right is Luna turning more towards the seaweed stick being carried by Storm on sand.

Observe your puppy’s body language closely, and if it starts displaying signs of stress or anxiety, end the encounter or move away from the stressor. Allow your puppy to calm down, and retry another day.

There is no rush; your aim for socialisation is to teach your puppy that new experiences are not scary. Each experience should be positive and calm for your puppy.

Sweeten The Deal

Always praise and reward your puppy for success. This equates to your puppy remaining comfortable when encountering something new. If your puppy investigates something new and is happy about the experience, sweeten the deal by giving praise and a small tasty reward. Success breeds confidence, and confidence is necessary to try new things.

If your puppy is worried or gets stressed about a new experience, remove it from the stressor and allow it to calm down. Once calm, then praise and reward the puppy. You will reinforce that being calm is a positive and rewarding behaviour for your puppy.

Reinforce Good Choices. Luna the grey and white siberian husky sat looking up at the camera, pale blue eyes, relaxed open mouthed happy face, sat on grass next to a stone wall

Receiving praise and a reward will also mean your puppy’s entire experience wasn’t negative. You always want to set your puppy up for success.

Allow Your Puppy Some Distance

The key to successful socialisation is introducing new stimuli to your puppy and ensuring it remains comfortable or unworried throughout the experience. Sometimes, this will mean a gradual introduction from a distance. The key aim is to ensure your puppy stays calm and consistently praise and reward this calmness.

Observing Your Puppy's Body Language Can Help You Understand What It's Feeling. Image on the right shows a little black and white bosten terrier in cartoon fashion, showing different body positions with basic translation underneath each image

Allow your puppy to gradually move towards the new stimuli when it feels ready to, and only if it remains comfortable. Rushing your puppy will have a negative impact on its socialisation development and may cause your puppy to have anxiety throughout its life.

Use Lots of Praise

The importance of praise backed up by a small tasty reward cannot be emphasised enough. Using lots of positive reinforcement makes a huge difference to your puppy’s confidence and encourages them to want to learn more. Using praise and a reward assures your puppy that it is doing the right thing and that you are happy with it.

Praise And Reward Every Time. Luna the grey and white siberian husky puppy, wearing a pink harness attached to a black lead, sitting facing forward in green grass with yellow flowers

Reinforcing calm behaviour teaches your puppy this is the correct response method. If the puppy finds the behaviour rewarding, it will repeat it. Repeating a behaviour is how it becomes a habit.

Be Your Puppy’s Advocate

Dogs can’t speak our language, so you must speak up for them. If your puppy finds an interaction or experience uncomfortable, remove your puppy. Most people will understand if you say you are training or your puppy is overwhelmed. You are allowed to remove yourself and your puppy from situations that you find uncomfortable.

It's All About Attitude. Pale pink background. Image on the right, Luna the grey and white siberian husky wearing a pink harness and collar, attached to a blue seatbelt lead lying on the back passanger seat against the door sunny window above her head, head turned facing right, happy open mouthed relaxed face.

Have Fun With Your Puppy

The more relaxed and positive you are in situations, the more relaxed and confident your puppy will be. Dogs are finely attuned to our emotions through our facial expressions, body language and tone of voice. If you are feeling unsure, your puppy will pick up on it. But if you are feeling happy and confident, your puppy will feel reassured that there’s nothing to worry about.

Rewards Don't Always Have To Be Food. Luna the grey and white siberian husky wearing a pink harness, collar and long line lead, running through the sea, to the left, with waves behind her, Elizabeth Castle and and a ferry in the backgruond.

Make this a time for fun, praise and rewards. It’s very satisfying when you successfully teach your puppy a new skill. Embrace it, and have fun with it. If one strategy doesn’t work, step back and try something different. Enjoy spending time with your puppy. You are teaching essential life skills and building a trusting relationship with them in the process.

Good luck, and enjoy the puppy experience. You might find these articles helpful:

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